Vibe with me for a second…
How many of you can relate to it being just MOM raising you?
EXACTLY ME TOO!!
Remember those moments when mom would call your name from anywhere in the house “TERRELL” and you know she wants something so you ignore her thinking she will leave it alone. Then she says ” TERRELL MARQUESE I KNOW YOU HEAR ME CALLING YOU.”
So, you respond “YES” and she says, ” Terrell you need to turn the game off and wash your brother up for bed.” At that moment you became instantly upset huh
YEAH ME TOO!!
What were your thoughts at that moment? “How come his dad can’t do it?”
YEAH THAT WAS MINES TO!!
DAD DIDN’T EXIST…
Most men nowadays don’t know how to be a father because they’ve never seen the role successfully done..
MAN LISTEN.. IF THAT ISN’T THE BIGGEST LLIE I’VE EVER HEARD.
Fellas, don’t be discouraged you can be a GREAT FATHER despite not having one in your own life. There is no right or wrong way to be a parent. I personally don’t have children but I’ve had the joy o helping raise my siblings.
FROM ME TO YOU
LOVE YOUR CHILDREN AND RAISE THEM WITH RESPECT, MORALS, AND TO VALUE THEMSELVES AT ALL COST. RAISE THOSE YOUNG WOMEN AND MEN TO BE THE KINGS & QUEENS THAT THEY WERE BORN TO BE. ONE OF THE WORST THINGS YOU CAN DO IS NOT BE THERE FOR YOUR CHILDREN THE SAME WAY DAD WASN’T FOR YOU.
LETTER TO MY FATHER
Who asked for this? No way would I ever wish this on myself. I was brought into this world without my permission. I am innocent in this situation but always used like a pawn.. So why am I being punished dad? Tell me why your never around when I need you. Even when you are here I wish you weren’t sometimes. Tell me why you always yell at me when I cry? Are you mad at me? Is it because you have to stay home weekends to watch me while mom is at work. I thought you loved me. You just told someone on the phone that you are babysitting. If your my dad then you aren’t babysitting me. Isn’t that considered raising me instead? It may have seem like fun to play house with my mom before.. but I’m here now and this is real. She needed you and I did too. You were suppose to show me how to be a man. Sadly, you left us while I was young. Now I know nothing about protection. I’m hungry at night so you failed at being a provider. Your lack of time made me a defective. I hate you for not loving me. I never needed to hide from you as a kid because you wouldn’t have tried to seek me anyways. I WILL NEVER BE YOU! I hear your still having kids well life has just begun for them too. I hope you are a better dad to them because you’ve never been one to me!
The son you wish you knew!